The pandemic situation has brought a lot of insecurity and fear for the future. Most of the children admitted in alternative care are placed as a protection measure by the state authorities due to different reasons. There is a lack of aftercare services as well as an undeveloped legal framework in country on the topic. Main challenges, come as result of missing aftercare services and are reflected in young people employability, housing, health issues, nutrition, education, mentorship, psychosocial services, in few cases endangering their survival as well.
CARE…
….is defined as “parenting children and young people”. It covers both care in families of origin and care in an alternative setting.
The Care Effect
The key is quality care, and investment into it has a multiplying effect – as children receive enriching care, flourish and realize their potential from generation to generation. It all starts with ensuring that children have the quality care of a parent or another caregiver from a very young age until they are ready for independent living. Care for children makes the world a better place. That is the care effect!
Since 1996, SOS Children’s Villages has been providing high quality alternative care services for 284 children and young people who have lost their parental care. Throughout care experience:
Youngsters who are independent now has these results:
95 % of young people are employed and are successful in their life (more than 55 % of young people employed are working on their profession).
35% of young people who left care have finished the University of the Country. Some of them are attending MA degree in different universities of the country or abroad.
35% are married and have created their families with children. Despite challenges of life (few of them are divorced) none of our youngsters who have created families have abandoned their children (they did not repeat the history of their lives).
More than 20 % of independent young people are living abroad and are integrated very well.
As we mature, we come to realize that happiness can be found even in the midst of sorrowful tales. During my time in the village, I developed a newfound appreciation for the love that comes with having siblings. Sara* and Ani* became my sisters in the household, and together we shared both our troubles and aspirations. We played, laughed, and even shed tears together. Hand in hand, we grew up alongside each other and created countless cherished memories. Is that the entirety of what a sister represents in the end?
“Dear diary, I’m writing to you because I don’t want to share my wishes with my parents. I know that they will not be able to make it happen for me, and this causes sadness in their eyes…”
Ada’s mother is unable to work due to her mental health conditions, and occasionally she is unable to care for girls. Ada’s grandmother is available to help, but she is old and in poor health. Ada’s father is the only provider of food for the family, but not having a profession makes it even harder for him to find a job. Ada and her sister did not attend school regularly.
Fredi*, her father, participated in various parenting workshops to improve his parental skills. Ada and her sister were supported with psychological consulting and education, including school supplies, learning materials and after-school help. Ada and her family members worked together with the social workers, and experts to strengthen the family.
During a training session after a year of receiving support, Fredi said:
“I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I work hard, I love my family, and I take care of my children, my wife and my mother. We all face challenges at different times, but some struggles can be more difficult than others. My situation has taught me that we should be less judgmental and more supportive of those going through difficult times. Through my experiences, I have come to understand that even simple acts of kindness can have a significant impact on those who are struggling with various challenges in their lives.”