Family strengthening services are an integral part of SOS Children’s Villages. Children need someone to stand by them, no matter what, but families can become vulnerable due to a combination of risk factors that are direct and indirect consequences of the social, cultural, economic and physical environments in which they live. Examples are few opportunities to earn a living, no affordable housing, conflict and war. These situations are exacerbated when families have limited or no access to support services such as social security, inclusive education, health systems, adequate infrastructure, and supportive social networks.
Factors increasing the risk of family breakdown and separation of children from their families vary from one community setting to another. A nurturing and trustworthy relationship is the cornerstone of the kind of family environment we envision for every child and young person. We work directly with families who are at risk of breaking down to ensure that they have the support they need to provide their children with these strong bonds. Strengthening and preserving families is seen as the best way to promote the healthy development of children
As we mature, we come to realize that happiness can be found even in the midst of sorrowful tales. During my time in the village, I developed a newfound appreciation for the love that comes with having siblings. Sara* and Ani* became my sisters in the household, and together we shared both our troubles and aspirations. We played, laughed, and even shed tears together. Hand in hand, we grew up alongside each other and created countless cherished memories. Is that the entirety of what a sister represents in the end?
“Dear diary, I’m writing to you because I don’t want to share my wishes with my parents. I know that they will not be able to make it happen for me, and this causes sadness in their eyes…”
Ada’s mother is unable to work due to her mental health conditions, and occasionally she is unable to care for girls. Ada’s grandmother is available to help, but she is old and in poor health. Ada’s father is the only provider of food for the family, but not having a profession makes it even harder for him to find a job. Ada and her sister did not attend school regularly.
Fredi*, her father, participated in various parenting workshops to improve his parental skills. Ada and her sister were supported with psychological consulting and education, including school supplies, learning materials and after-school help. Ada and her family members worked together with the social workers, and experts to strengthen the family.
During a training session after a year of receiving support, Fredi said:
“I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I work hard, I love my family, and I take care of my children, my wife and my mother. We all face challenges at different times, but some struggles can be more difficult than others. My situation has taught me that we should be less judgmental and more supportive of those going through difficult times. Through my experiences, I have come to understand that even simple acts of kindness can have a significant impact on those who are struggling with various challenges in their lives.”
